Things I did not know about myself before motherhood:
--that I would become a slave to my children's nap- and bedtimes
--that pregnancy and childbirth would actually improve my body image
--that it would be easier to love a child who does not cause physical pain
--that I would breastfeed
--that I would not love breastfeeding but do it anyway
--that I would fluctuate so widely and often between not wanting to leave the house and feeling trapped at home
--that I love being pregnant
--that it would be far easier to be a mother than a wife
--that I would cry the first time I left my oldest with someone else at bedtime
What have you learned?
--that I would become a slave to my children's nap- and bedtimes
--that pregnancy and childbirth would actually improve my body image
--that it would be easier to love a child who does not cause physical pain
--that I would breastfeed
--that I would not love breastfeeding but do it anyway
--that I would fluctuate so widely and often between not wanting to leave the house and feeling trapped at home
--that I love being pregnant
--that it would be far easier to be a mother than a wife
--that I would cry the first time I left my oldest with someone else at bedtime
What have you learned?
- That potty training would be such a test of my patience,
ReplyDelete- That I would care so much about my children's sibling relationships
- How different it would be getting sick as a mom versus before kids
- What a drain my IQ motherhood is turning out to be
- How much less cute dogs and cats seem now
- That all my children would be so incredibly creative
ReplyDelete- That all my children would travel the world
- That my children would choose the largest, possible musical instruments available to play
- That I would never stop feeling like a Mom even when my children became adults
- That I would watch sweaty boys wrestle at eight hour tournaments and enjoy it
- That I would love the Suzuki piano method
- That I would be so hard on myself as a parent
- That the only "me" time would be 5:30 am
- That high school years would have so many highs and lows
- That I really didn't know as much as I thought I did
-That grandchildren would be so fascinating.